Q: Should we send invitations?

A: Absolutely. You won’t be inviting every single wedding guest to your rehearsal dinner, so it’s important to send separate invitations to avoid confusion.

Q: When should we send invitations?

A: No later than four weeks before the date.

Q: Any special rules about the invitations?

A: Nope. The rehearsal dinner is typically less formal than the wedding reception so you definitely have a lot more room for creativity with the design and wording on the rehearsal invitation. Just don’t forget to give credit to the hosts.

Q: How big of a meal is expected?

A: If you’re inviting someone to “dinner,” then you should serve them dinner-sized portions.

Q: Is it appropriate for people to speak at the rehearsal dinner?

A: Yes! It’s a great time for your friends to share stories and memories. Speeches at your rehearsal dinner are also a great alternative to those long speeches at your wedding reception.

Q: Is it okay to offer to split the cost of the rehearsal dinner with the groom’s parents.

A: Of course. If you’re worried that the expense is too much for one family, splitting the cost is perfectly appropriate. Remember, you want this night to be fun, not stressful.

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