Thank you notes are a must. You know that. So when writing them, be sure to follow some simple guidelines for a note that will make a lovely impression.

Gifts of Money
Don’t mention the amount, but tell them how you’ll use the money. Example:

Dear Uncle Angelo,                                                                                                                                    Brad and I were thrilled with your very generous and thoughtful gift. You have brought us one step closer to our dream house. We are looking forward to seeing you again when we’re back in Oregon for the holidays! Love, Anna and Brad

Gifts You Already Have (or already exchanged it)
Don’t mention the situation or say how you’ll use it. Instead, talk about the gift itself. Example:

Dear Uncle Angelo,                                                                                                                                    Brad and I want to thank you for the crystal vase. The design is so lovely and elegant. You’re clearly a man with excellent taste! We were so happy you were able to attend the wedding. Love, Anna and Brad

You Don’t Know The Person Who Gave You the Gift
Focus on happy you were to meet her at the wedding

Dear Mrs. Dwight,                                                                                                                                       Thank you for the beautiful crystal candle holders. They will look perfect on our dining room table. My parents have always spoken so highly of you and Brad and I can’t wait to finally meet you at the wedding. (I’ll be the woman wearing the white dress!) Sincerely, Anna and Brad

Group Gifts
Definitely send individual thank you’s, but acknowledge the whole group.

Dear Bruce,                                                                                                                                                Thank you for the gas grill. It’s got all the bells and whistles – just what we’ve been wanting! We feel so lucky to have friends who know us so well. You and Kayla will have to come by soon for Bruce’s famous steaks! Warmly, Anna

You Hate It. It’s Hideous.
Don’t be a phony and rave, but instead be positive and grateful.

Dear Aunt Susan,                                                                                                                                              Brad and I want to thank you for the croaking frog clock. The sound it makes every hour reminds me of the fun summers we spent by the huge pond on your property. We were so happy you were able to attend the wedding and look forward to seeing you over the holidays. Love, Anna and Brad

You Have No Idea What the Gift Is
Yup, it happens. You have no clue what it is. Focus on the gift rather than the mystery of what is.

Dear Michelle and Robert,                                                                                                                                Brad and I want to thank you for the lovely wedding gift. You are such a creative and caring couple and we are so lucky to have you as friends. Please come over and see our new place soon! Love, Anna and Brad